Current:Home > InvestKing Charles has cancer and we don’t know what kind. How we talk about it matters. -Elevate Capital Network
King Charles has cancer and we don’t know what kind. How we talk about it matters.
View
Date:2025-04-13 16:55:49
King Charles III has cancer. No, we don't know what kind. No, we don't know how advanced. No, we don't know, well, much of anything.
The news – which Buckingham Palace announced Monday – follows a recent prostate procedure for Charles, whose coronation was last May.
"He remains wholly positive about his treatment and looks forward to returning to full public duty as soon as possible," the statement read. "His Majesty has chosen to share his diagnosis to prevent speculation and in the hope it may assist public understanding for all those around the world who are affected by cancer."
Speculation, though, will run rampant anyway, as it did for his daughter-in-law Princess Kate amid her own recent planned abdominal surgery, subsequent hospitalization and pause of public duties.
Experts warn that while it's certainly OK to wonder about the lives of public figures – or anyone in their life – people should remember that everyone deserves respect amid a health scare. And a man like Charles, in this case, is still human.
"Due to the public nature of their life, some people can inappropriately believe they are entitled to every aspect of their life which is untrue," says Chase Cassine, licensed clinical social worker. "Celebrities and public figures are humans and deserve the fundamental human right of autonomy and self-determination by controlling what aspects of their lives will be self-disclosed."
'We should avoid assumptions'
Health scares are, for lack of a better word, scary. Though Charles may be "wholly positive," we're not privy to all the nuances bouncing around his brain. We also don't need to know.
"We should avoid assumptions about how he feels," says Amy Morin, psychotherapist, author of "13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do" and the host of a podcast. "The emotional response someone has to a diagnosis is individual and personal."
Just because someone has a crown on their head doesn't render them immune to pain or suffering – from a serious health condition or gossip.
"Instead of speculating and spreading false information, people should allow a safe and respectful space for the person whether they are providing information on their protected health information or not," Cassine says. "They are not obligated to do so."
The full story:King Charles III diagnosed with cancer following hospitalization for prostate procedure
'Outside opinions' not helpful
If you're struggling on how to think about Charles – or maybe how to talk to a sick individual in your life – keep it simple.
"It's safe to say things like, 'We're wishing him the best,'" Morin adds. "It's important to avoid judgments about treatment options. It's up to the patient and the doctor to determine the best course of action. Outside opinions about treatments and suggestions about how to proceed aren't helpful."
If you don't want to say anything at all, you could even send a card or a meal without asking any questions at all.
Generally speaking: "You can be sensitive to someone's health struggles without knowing the details," Morin says. "You can wish the person well without knowing what's wrong. And you can let them know you're thinking of them without understanding the extent of their treatment."
Heads up:Princess Kate's surgery news ignites gossip. Why you should mind your business.
veryGood! (73454)
Related
- Man can't find second winning lottery ticket, sues over $394 million jackpot, lawsuit says
- USWNT looked like a completely different team in win against Mexico. That's a good thing.
- Dodgers pitcher Dustin May has season-ending surgery on esophagus
- Prince William and Prince George Make Surprise Appearance at Euro 2024 Final
- Tom Holland's New Venture Revealed
- Jennifer Lopez Shares Rare Glimpse Into Bond With Ben Affleck's Daughter Violet
- Bubba, a 375-pound sea turtle found wounded in Florida, released into Atlantic Ocean
- What’s worse than thieves hacking into your bank account? When they steal your phone number, too
- Senate begins final push to expand Social Security benefits for millions of people
- The 2024 Volkswagen Jetta GLI is the most underrated car I’ve driven this year. Here's why.
Ranking
- Cincinnati Bengals quarterback Joe Burrow owns a $3 million Batmobile Tumbler
- Here's What the Dance Moms Cast Is Up to Now
- Canada coach Jesse Marsch shoots barbs at US Soccer, denies interest in USMNT job
- Apple app store consumer class action set for February 2026 jury trial
- McKinsey to pay $650 million after advising opioid maker on how to 'turbocharge' sales
- Australian gallery's Picasso exhibit that sparked a gender war wasn't actually the Spanish painter's work
- One Tech Tip: Protecting yourself against SIM swapping
- Where was Trump rally? Butler County, PA appearance was site of shooting Saturday
Recommendation
Head of the Federal Aviation Administration to resign, allowing Trump to pick his successor
Trump rally attendees react to shooting: I thought it was firecrackers
Prince Harry accepts Pat Tillman service award at ESPYs after Mary Tillman's objections
What we know about the 20-year-old suspect in the apparent assassination attempt of Donald Trump
IRS recovers $4.7 billion in back taxes and braces for cuts with Trump and GOP in power
European Commission accuses Elon Musk's X platform of violating EU Digital Services Act
See All the Stars at the Kids' Choice Awards 2024 Red Carpet
Jaguars, Macaws and Tropical Dry Forest Have a Right To Exist, a Colombian Court Is Told